What Do You REALLY Think About Yourself?

Have you ever heard of confirmation bias? It's a psychology term used to describe the way we filter out any information which.. ..doesn't support how we see the world and allow in everything that does. It's a pretty nifty little trick that our minds use to make us feel good. And it's pretty good at it too! But it's also really good at hiding...

Is There ANYONE Out There?

You know a bunch of people. Some of them you like, others you don't really like. Some are nice. Some are angry. Some are annoying. Some are good. Some are bad. And so on... If you don't like some people, you tend to move away from them. And if you like them, you tend to keep them...

Is Being Real Just Too Hard?

I realise that being real with people can seem hard. After all, if you've been running the same patterns of hiding who you are and what you stand for, for years and years, it can seem like a lot of work..

Do You Know The Truth?

Consider this: truth is made, rather than found.. What do you hold as "true"? Do you realise that another person could have a different perspective on your truth, and call it a "truth" also? Which one of you is right? Who is wrong?

On "Faking It Till You Make It".

To those who are approaching endless women, expecting that they can "fake it till they make it", I offer this quote: "Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein.

Inner Game Vs Outer Game: Which One Should You Work On?

The inner game / outer game debate is constantly raging.. ..but there's one thing that is constantly being left out of it. So to make sure you can make an informed decision about which direction you want to go, I thought I'd ask the questions that need to be asked. If you walked into a store that sold machines that cut off your balls.. ..would whether or not you bought one would be determined by how good the salesman was?

How Good Is Your Inner Game?

I get a lot of guys asking me how to work out whether they have good or bad inner game.. ..so I thought I'd put a little test together. It's pretty straight forward - 1 question and a 1 word answer. Are you ready to find out how well you're doing? Well. Here it is: Are you currently experiencing everything you..

Will Faking It Ever Help You "Make It"?

There's no doubt that you can change the way you behave around people through faking it. And there's no doubt that you can even get improve your results with women through doing this.. ..but the question I'm going to ask today is can you ever actually make it through faking it? The first stop on this little journey has to be: what is your definition of making it? It's only once you...