False time constraint: should you use one?

Question and answer time!!!

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The question comes from a discussion I was having with a PUA about false time constraints.

I was having a bit of a rant about how I believe it’s wrong to lie to people and he asked specifically about false time constraints.

Whilst this thread is specifically about false time constraints, as with everything on this site, it also goes much deeper than that.

My answer is applicable to openers, routines, techniques, methods, structures, kino, and anything else related to learning ‘game’. If you’ve ever asked a question about whether or not you should use any of them, this would be my answer.

The conversation went something like this:

Me: I think it’s wrong to lie to women and so therefore, I will not do it. I will not lie to try and change her perceptions of me because that’s not the world I want to create?

Him: Is there anything wrong with this lie (a false time constraint)…….its so innocent! haha

Me: (Rant warning) It’s not a question of ‘is this right or wrong’, because it’s your life and you can do whatever you want. If you want to lie to people, then lie to people. If you don’t want to lie to people then don’t.

This isn’t a question of ‘right or wrong’, it’s a question of ‘what kind of world do you want to create?’

Do you want to live in a world where people lie to each other just so they can get things from people?

I know that I don’t so I don’t lie. And the guys I coach are are never instructed to lie. If they don’t have to be anywhere then they don’t say they do. If they don’t feel like smiling then they won’t smile. If they don’t have anything to say then they wont say anything.

Saying you have to be somewhere may seem small, but think about the principle you’re living your life by – it’s ok to lie to someone to change their perception of you.

Is this how you want people in your life to act? Is this what you want people to do when they’re around you? Then why would you do it to other people?

In every moment, you’re creating your world. If you lie to people then you’re creating a world where people lie to each other to appear to be something they’re not.

I’m not going to tell you how to live your life but is this the kind of world you want to create?


So what area of ‘game’ are you currently working on and is it in alignment with how you want to create your world?

Do you want to create a world where people hide who they truly are and try to manipulate people into being attracted to them?

Do you want to create a world where people use other people to feel good?

If not, then why would you do it?

Just something to consider…

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