How NOT To Build Your Inner Game Foundations.

I have a secret to tell you.

I don’t know how you’re going to take this but it needs to be said: You are not attractive. But, on top of this, you’re also not interesting, fun, or exciting.

I know this must sound like I’m just being an arsehole but I’m not. I’m actually pointing out one of the most helpful inner game secretes there is.

Seduction community gurus have been telling you for a long time that you need to develop positive inner game belief structures. And logically, it makes sense!

But when you start to scratch the surface, you’ll start to see just how limiting these belief structures can actually be.

Alright, let me paint you a picture. You enter the seduction community with low self esteem. You don’t think you’re attractive and you don’t think that women want to be with you. You get into inner game work like affirmations and over time, you develop this belief that you’re actually attractive.

Sweet! Good work!

So you begin to believe that you’re attractive. That’s the basis of your ‘game’. You strut around, opening, hooking, closing the women you want because you know you’re attractive and you know women want an attractive guy.

But then you find one you really want. And you know what, she doesn’t find you attractive. She also happens to find you quite boring as well.

This gets at you a bit. You don’t feel so attractive any more. In fact, you feel a little shit. So you head out trying to prove her wrong. You’re not in a great state so things don’t flow so smoothly for you. You’re not your usual cocky, playful self. And what happens? You don’t get the results you want. Women don’t find you attractive.

How do you feel now?

Why did this happen? The limitation of beliefs is that they’re built upon the feedback you get, every day. If you want to maintain a belief, you need to find evidence in your world EVERY day. When you don’t, that belief goes out the window and is replaced by something else.

All of a sudden, your entire self image is down the drain. Your self esteem suffers and you have start all over again.

By trying to develop these positive beliefs, you’re setting yourself up for a lifetime of work. You’re building your self image on very shaky foundations.

You’re going to have to spend so much of your time trying to gather enough evidence to support this belief and when you don’t find it, every aspect of your life is going to suffer.

But consider this: can you ever actually be attractive to everyone? Is that within you grasp? I’m not going to answer that but I want you to think about this: have you ever been out with a mate and he’s seen a girl who he thought was stunning and you weren’t into at all?

Of course you have. Now tell me, was she objectively ‘attractive’ or not?

She wasn’t attractive to everyone and you cant be either. No-one can. Ever. There’s always going to be people who don’t find you attractive. In saying that, I’m sure there are people out there who do find you attractive.

You are not objectively attractive. You are not everyone’s cup of tea. Not everyone likes the way you dress, look, or act. In fact, it’s the height of arrogance to assume that you are attractive!

You don’t know what other people think and you can never actually know. But you know what? There are some people who do find you attractive. There are some people who think you’re stunningly good looking, dress incredibly well, and are the most fun person they’ve ever met.

So here’s the secret to rock solid beliefs, don’t build them on an external foundation that DOES NOT exist.

You’re not attractive in the same way you’re not unattractive. You’re just you. You’re not fun in the same way you’re not boring. You’re just you. You’re not cool in the same way you’re not a dork. You’re just you.

You are nothing so you’re free to be yourself. You know nothing so you’re free to be yourself.

There’s no labels or criteria you have to met and there’s no restrictions that define your actions. You are totally free to do what you want and no matter what response you get, it doesn’t change who you are.

You are you and that’s all you can ever be. You don’t know, and can never know, if she’s going to find you attractive and you don’t know if she likes the way you dress. You know anything about what she’s thinking and the only thing worrying about it is going to do is make your life more stressful!

You know nothing. I want you to say this out aloud: I know nothing.

When I wake up in the morning, I start every day with these affirmations:

I am not attractive.
I am not cool.
I am not exciting.
I am not good with women.
I am not sexy.
I know nothing.

It means that every day, I am free. I am free to do, to be, to act the way I want because there are no labels that I have to live up to.

So let go of everything else, let go of all these bullshit labels, follow your desire, live your purpose, reach your dreams, do what you need to do to make yourself happy, and let the chips fall where they may.

And don’t worry, I still think you’re beautiful 😉


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