How to Attract Women: What They’re Not Telling You Leigh (LoGun) Attract Women 42 Comments Dating Coaches and Pickup Guru’s have an obsession with making attracting women seem complicated and tricky. According to some reports I’ve seen, there’s over 46 steps you NEED to follow to attract a woman! This is wrong. They’ve taken something simple and beautiful and made it intricate and manipulative. After spending 8 years studying the art of forming deep, powerful, and beautiful relationships with the most intimidatingly attractive women… …I can confidently say that you don’t need to memorise 46 steps. You don’t even need 10. In fact, when you become the kind of Man that is naturally attractive to women, you don’t even need 1. I’m not saying that you can sit in a room, meditate, and women will be banging down your door. What I am saying is that you don’t have to spend months or even years of your life internalising or memorising tactics in the hope that you can fool a woman for long enough to get her to sleep with you. You’ll be able to be honest, open, and real with the feminine, beautiful, women you desire and have them attracted to you because of it. “But surely becoming Naturally Attractive to women is hard work!” It’s actually not. It’s far easier than you think. In fact, there’s only one thing that’s preventing you from being the kind of Man that women are naturally dawn to. If you want to find out exactly what that is and what you can do to change it for ever… …download your FREE copy of Seduction Community Sucks from the top of this page. In it, you’ll discover exactly why the Seduction Community can never give you the solution you’re looking for and the only thing you need to change to naturally and effortlessly attract women. Get your FREE copy now ^^^^^ Join over 25,000 subcribersDownload your FREE copy of Seduction Community Sucks now and get in-field videos, subscriber-only articles, and exclusive podcasts delivered directly to your inbox If you're ready to become the kind of Man that attracts confident and in-demand women without trying, then I have a gift to start you on that journey. Seduction Community Sucks is your 159 page kick-start to becoming the kind of Man that makes women go weak at the knees. Get your FREE copy, as well as access to other subscriber-only articles, podcasts, and video footage, now. Get your FREE ebook, hidden articles, in-field videos, and exclusive podcasts here: 42 Responses john August 21, 2011 although it seems familiar (to what you wrote in the past), it’s a golden advice. Will try it tonight. Ps Does this article has something to do with “Foreplay”? Reply LoGun August 21, 2011 Very good question… Yes. It does have something to do with Foreplay. I’m still in the process of developing it but I’m very excited to see what we can achieve with this little baby. L. Reply Mariano August 23, 2011 What are you guys talking about? LoGun August 23, 2011 Foreplay is another workshop that’s I’m putting together. It’s going to involve a lot of live coaching with female coaches and a lot of exercises and practices. If you want to look at it through the pathways that I talk about in Endgame, this would be Creating. And specifically, creating in your relationships with women. Get excited. VERY excited It wont be ready for quite a while yet as I’ve got a lot of other priorities, but it is planned. Keep your eye’s peeled. L. Mariano August 23, 2011 Ooooooh nice John Fitipaldi August 25, 2011 I Logun, i really like your things and your materials, but, just one thing, really i cant understand why you destroy the hability of create strongs beliefs..?? Why? Thats a very important thing, in lot of aspects in life, in PNL, in hypnosis, in all…and you with your book SCS destroy the skill and the capacity of believe in any strong some idea.. Why your ebook made guys looks like in a sleep state, and absolutely asexual?? are you the Evil? Are you working really for CIA – mental destruction section? why your primal objetive is become guys in retardars and stupids? And please, public these note, dont be a coward, What could I did for recover my belief hability? I will pay all what you want…have a nice day… Reply LoGun August 25, 2011 Hi John, Thanks for your comment. I’m sorry that you feel so lost but I’m not sure what you’re talking about. If anything, I encourage you to have very strong beliefs. Yes, the ideas in Seduction Community Sucks are designed to help you see the limitation of the ideas of the seduction community, but they’re also designed to help you see that there’s a different and more powerful way to transform your relationships with women. A way that involves taking responsibility for your life, owning who you are, what you stand for, where you want to go, and pursuing that. I don’t want you to be asexual, I want you to be ultra sexual. I don’t understand where you got this idea from. Can you let me know what part of the book led you to the belief that I want you to be like that? Leigh P.S. I can neither confirm nor deny that I work for the CIA but that’s a topic for a later discussion… Reply Andreas August 27, 2011 I can see what he is talking about. I`ve read your SCS from a getting perspective and I felt then what he is feeling now. If John downloads Endgame maybe all becoms much clearer. At least it did for me LoGun August 27, 2011 I agree with you here. If you’ve spent your entire life operating with one end point in mind and then see realise that that endpoint isn’t what you really want, it can leave an emptiness. Lottie April 15, 2014 Dag nabbit good stuff you whanserppippers! Vince August 25, 2011 I agreed with the first half. Then the 2nd half I don’t know if I am getting this right, but it feels like I need to adapt myself constantly? (What happened to being myself?) and keep trying to analyse and think what she needs to make her feel better? Whats the difference between this and “saving” her? a trap lots of ‘nice guys’ fall into? Reply LoGun August 26, 2011 Hey Vince, Great question! I was wondering how long it was going to take before someone asked that. The reason you’re confused here is you’re not making the separation between the end point and the pathway for getting there. The ultimate end point I’m attempting to help you achieve is to become the kind of Man who naturally gives to everyone around him because he’s so happy, fulfilled, and satisfied with his life that he’s able to give completely without asking anything in return. The pathway I’m suggesting you follow is one of being completely selfish and totally internally focused so that you are completely fulfilled and satisfied with your life without her in it. When you reach this place, you can give freely without asking for anything in return. If you try and give before you reach this place, there’s always going to be an element of neediness, wanting to get something back for your giving. The difference between this pathway and ‘saving her’ is if you’re totally fulfilled and happy with your life, you’re probably not going to be attracted to someone who needs saving. I can’t say this as a conclusive statement because I can only speak from personal experience but now I’m on the path of personal fulfillment, women who need saving simply don’t do it for me. I want to fill my life with people who are strong, free, powerful, and moving forward creating the life they want. I don’t want it to be weighed down by people who are only interested in taking from me. Does that answer your question? L. Reply Shyaam August 26, 2011 Simply awesome post! Reply John Fitipaldi August 26, 2011 Helloo! These is the part of your book that make me lose lot of confidence, power in magic and money, because i normaly just create the reality that I wish to want… And I don´t know why the next day when I finish that book all my old ideas dissapear, and my mind become blank… Cap.9 of SCS. WHY DOING AFFIRMATIONS (TO DEVELOP POSITIVE BELIEFS ABOUT YOURSELF) IS BAD FOR YOUR CONGRUENCE Confidence and positive beliefs are very closely intertwined, but as there’s such a huge emphasis placed on them in the bla,bla,bla,bla,bla and more bla, and my set of believes was absolutely destroyed… Include my sexual tension, again, dont be a coward and publish these comment, have a nice day Agent Logun… Reply LoGun August 26, 2011 Ok, so I think I get it. You had a map of the world that told you that getting power and money was the way to live your life. It was the ‘right’ way to live. Then you read SCS and all of a sudden you see that living that life isn’t going to make you happy fulfilled or satisfied with your life. If this is right, I think I can see what’s going on here. If you’ve spent your entire life chasing money and power, there’s a good chance you’ve been letting other people dictate what you should work towards in life. Now that you’ve read SCS and seen that those things aren’t important, you don’t know what you need to work towards because for the first time, you have to think for yourself. Is that accurate? I’m not trying to put you down or make you feel bad, I’m simply trying to understand what’s happening here. L. Reply MT August 27, 2011 Is it common to feel happy and fulfilled yet when seeing a beautiful women, there is still a desire of wanting her as girlfriend, which then traps me in a getting pathway that makes me insecure a needy for that moment? If you know what I am talking about? Reply LoGun August 28, 2011 I don’t know if it’s common but it’s definitely possible. Think back to the work you did in Get Real – what’s the sensation you’re seeking behind your desire to have her as your girlfriend? And what’s a way you can expereince that through the actions you take rather than through the outcome. L. Reply MT August 29, 2011 what’s the sensation you’re seeking behind your desire to have her as your girlfriend? —– How can I describe it? By seeing her everyday, watching her smile, listening to her laughter, feeling the softness of her skin…..It is a sensation of comfort, a rush to the heart feeling fulfilled and loved. I guess that’s the best I can do to put it.. How would I experience that sensation through actions instead of outcomes? I am a bit confused.. Do you mean the action of ‘making love’ with her to experience that sensation vs outcome as ‘She likes me’? Thanks LoGun August 29, 2011 Think back to your Get Real work. The two core desires – which one are you chasing? It sounds to me like you need a refresher… Week 2, I think it’s Friday or Saturday. John Fitipaldi August 28, 2011 I will think your words… again my loved and hated at the same time favorite love guru Reply LoGun August 28, 2011 Wonderful mate. Let me know what you come up with. Reply Maky August 29, 2011 I am totally confused… I mean i dont know what to do, i am trying to establish the confident inner me but still i am seeing no results Reply LoGun August 29, 2011 Ok, so what I’m reading in this is that ‘I’m trying to be more like the kind of guy that I think women will be more attracted to by trying to be more confident. The problem is that no women are attracted to me.’ Is that right? Reply Kit Quiton November 18, 2011 Humans by nature are selfish that is why we tend to think more of our needs rather than our partners. It takes a real men to know the needs of a women and be able to provide and satisfy them. Nice article. Good job man! Reply Dawit December 5, 2011 Just a tip. You should maybe consider mentioning that the book is free because when i read your article, I ignored the link to SCS because I thought it was some sort of product you where trying to sell. Then I realized it was a free E-book, and that turned on my curiosity. Great article, always good to have those kinds of logic and simple but still important tips! Reply Leigh (LoGun) December 5, 2011 Will do mate. Thanks for the heads up. And I’m glad you enjoyed the article. Check out the rest of the site if you want to find more info along the same lines. L. Reply Darren December 7, 2011 I knew a lot of the stuff already, but I actually learned something new thanks. ps. nice blog my friend Reply Ed January 6, 2012 Even though I don’t have a lot of experiences with women I did kind of understand what the main points were about women and why sometimes they can be so complicated. Reply Alex Stevens February 2, 2012 I’m glad you emphasised the point that attraction is simply a feeling. I don’t care what your circumstances, ugly, broke, boring, you can attract hot women. It’s all about knowing 100% in your heart that YOU ARE THE MAN, and you can pull any chick you want even 10/10’s. Once you have this mindset, attracting women will be of ease. Alex Stevens Reply roger February 9, 2012 good very good more at Reply Jon February 9, 2012 hey how do I know what realy want to feel, I can make her feel the way she want if I know it but how can i exactly know it what she realy want to feel? Reply Leigh (LoGun) February 13, 2012 You’ve asked a couple of big questions there. It’s probably more than I can answer here without going into a long conversation. Can you sign up on the forum and post your question there? It’ll be a lot easier to have a productive conversation there. You can access it here: Attraction Institute Forum Reply Mark Maddington August 15, 2012 Not many posts get me interested, however Im going to download the e-book and have a read. All information is good information – It looks interesting anyway. Seduction and attraction can be tricky concepts and you definitely need some inner thinking to get it all worked out in your mind. Reply Stephanie October 10, 2012 This is hilarious I am a woman and the key to getting is to be interested in you is to allow us to see all the foos in you. What makes you attractive that you already have inside. We get hit on all the time we don’t want to be approached by another guy who wants to buy is a drink in hopes of getting laid. All we ask is you are fearless and want to engage in a great coversation and joke around a little and don’t sweat possibilities of rejection. We are humans just like men and when men don’t take the step to engage with us chances are they will miss out. Just thought a female perspective might be nice. GReat job L. Reply Leigh (LoGun) October 10, 2012 Great to hear from a woman on this. Thanks for the feedback. If you’ve got thoughts on anything else on the site, feel free to share it. Leigh Reply Paul January 10, 2013 Words of wisdom and clarity finally on dating. I remember coming out of a 10 year marriage and realised I was no longer the confident man I used to be, in fact I was no longer me. I started down the David De track and it was a good primer, I also enjoyed many of his dating gurus. When I read all the different ways guys were attracting women… it dawned on me. ‘shit! I’ve done that” A bit of an aha moment. I never had trouble meeting and attracting women before I got married. Perhaps I didn’t qualify enough but what the heck, I probably didn’t know what I wanted anyway…lol So now I’m feeling more and more like my old self but more like a new self. My confidence is back because I’m no longer focussed on me. I focus on making women laugh & smile, I’m genuinely interested in them and find it easy to create rapport with… anyone, male or female. You’ll attract a woman, as a by product of being who you are, for real. If you’re not attracting any women, perhaps you’re not interesting enough or think highly enough of yourself (not in an ego way). It also helps to be interested enough to learn the arts of seduction your woman deserves the best. Go for the women who you feel attracted to on many levels. Some of the coolest women I’ve ever dated were way under what guys would consider 10. I never gauge a woman on her looks alone, if you do, your are missing out on some beautiful women out there. Looks and body parts are over rated. A Woman last week asked me (before we met up), Her: What type of breasts do you like? Me: Depends who they are on (this is true for me) Her: Now come on, don’t you like big boobs, most guys do! Me: Well, I do feel for women with large boobs, all that extra weight and back problems Her: What would you call large boobs? Me: …..You know, bigger than 12D Her: Well I’m sorry, you miss out, I’m 12F Me:.. (laughing by now) Let’s not quibble about a few millimetres I’ve been dating online since 2003 PS I like that left brain right brain analogy its really opened my mind to being aware of ‘whats’ in control of me at any one time. Great stuff, dialling it in this weekend. Reply Leigh (LoGun) January 12, 2013 That’s awesome mate. Good to hear you connect with it. Have fun and let us know how you go. Reply Paul January 23, 2013 The date went well and I’m glad I qualified this woman a bit more as I decided not to continue with her. She said had I played my cards better I could have shagged her.. awe.. who cares. Now I’m dating an absolutely gorgeous artist. Things are going great, a little too good in fact… lol I have to keep in mind your great advice, not to make a woman more important than your life. I probably pickup your book so I can reheat some of those great mindsets on being a man. So easy to fall back into old ways. Leigh (LoGun) January 23, 2013 Beautiful to hear mate. Keep up the good work. And yeah, you’re right. I still find it easy to slip back into old habits and have ot keep reminding myself of the basics. It’s a never ending game but it’s also the most rewarding game you’ll ever play. Good luck, Leigh ez_attraction January 23, 2013 I do agree that some of the advice out there about attracting women can seem overly complicated and over the top. I try to tell guys to start with making themselves more ‘attractive’ people in the first place. In other words, I tell guys to work on developing themselves and trying to improve their own lives so that they can become more ‘attractive’ to women. Reply how to meet a girl February 14, 2013 Greate pieces. Keep posting such kind of information on your blog. Im really impressed by it. Hey there, You have done a great job. I’ll certainly digg it and for my part suggest to my friends. I’m confident they will be benefited from this web site. Reply Morten Olesen April 18, 2013 Great post about this subject. 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