How To Impress a Girl: One Secret They’re Not Telling You Leigh (LoGun) Confidence With Women 7 Comments Impressing a girl is easy. VERY easy, when you know what you’re doing… And if you’re not impressing women right now, it’s because you’re listening to advice that misses the most important point. There’s plenty of advice on how to impress a girl floating around the internet. Apparently, the way to impress a girl is: – Buy her flowers – Take her to expensive restaurants – Brag about the important people you know – Tell stories about the exciting things you’ve done – Learn to be a good listener Have these worked for people in the past? Sure they have. I’m sure there’s someone who’s bought a girl flowers, or taken her to an expensive restaurant and she’s been impressed. Will they work for you? No, and here’s why. Have you ever spent time with someone who you could tell was doing things just to impress you? The kind of person who exaggerates stories, changes the way they talk, even changes the way they act, just to impress you… The kind of person who just reeks of neediness because they’re trying SOOO hard to impress you… Did you find them impressive? Did you even want to hang out with them? No, I didn’t think so. Now, flip that around. Think of the most impressive people you know. They ones you hang out with and just think ‘Wow…’ Do they do things just to impress you? Do they change the way they act or talk just to try and change the way you think about them? No, they do what they want, when they want to, because they want to do it. They’re not worried about what changing the way people think about them because they don’t care whether or not they impress people. The reason that none of these tips on how to impress a girl will work for you is that you’re trying to impress the girl. You’re making yourself needy, clingy, and dependent on her to feel good. You’re making her feel the exact same way you feel when someone tries to impress you. Is that what you want to do? Do you want her to feel repulsed in the same way you feel repulsed when someone tries to impress you? The act of trying to impress her is the very thing that’s preventing you from impressing her. Here’s the secret of how to impress a girl – stop trying to impress her. Stop trying to change the way she thinks about you just so you can feel good. Stop being needy, clingy, and pushing her away by trying to trick her into being impressed by you. Learning tricks to impress her isn’t going to fix the fact that you’re not impressing her. It’s not going to fix the real problem. Something deeper has to change to become the kind of Man who is naturally impressive to women. If you want to know the one thing you need to change to become naturally impressive to women… …download Seduction Community Sucks from the right hand side of this page. In it, you’ll learn why ANY advice on how to impress and attract women is fundamentally flawed as well as only thing you need to change to naturally impress and attract the women you want. Join over 25,000 subcribersDownload your FREE copy of Seduction Community Sucks now and get in-field videos, subscriber-only articles, and exclusive podcasts delivered directly to your inbox If you're ready to become the kind of Man that attracts confident and in-demand women without trying, then I have a gift to start you on that journey. Seduction Community Sucks is your 159 page kick-start to becoming the kind of Man that makes women go weak at the knees. Get your FREE copy, as well as access to other subscriber-only articles, podcasts, and video footage, now. Get your FREE ebook, hidden articles, in-field videos, and exclusive podcasts here: 7 Responses ez_attraction March 8, 2013 Good article. It really is counterintuitive. The way to impress a girl is actually not to try and impress her. The last thing to do as a guy is to start acting needy and clingy. Reply Leonard March 7, 2015 Very nice post. I certainly love this site. Keep it up! Reply Karan Kumar Yadav November 11, 2015 I want to to impress that type of girl who does’nt want me Reply Aimee November 5, 2016 Flipping the script is a brilliant way to get the girl investing and chasing you which increases attraction. Reply ebony eyes everly brothers December 5, 2016 This will show your weak side and she’ll keep on pushing you away. Chances are, you will probably adore the attention lavished on your freshly pedicured tootsies too. You’ll sometimes have access to unique dialogue options when dealing with the opposite sex. Reply Jazib July 9, 2017 ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,? Reply Randall August 31, 2017 I don’t try and impress girls, or anyone. The results have been nothing- literally. This advice is counterintuitive for a reason. Reply Leave a Reply Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published.CommentName* Email* Website Notify me of followup comments via e-mail. You can also subscribe without commenting.