I had a really interesting conversation with my girlfriend about working out the other day and it showed me something about attracting women that I was aware of, but never considered when it came to being in shape.
I don’t if you’ve seen any of the videos I’ve made (I don’t know why you’d sit through any of those lies 😉
…but I work out. And I love doing it.
I love seeing just how hard I can push myself, how much progress I can make…
When I’m lying under a bar, or it’s racked on my shoulders, and I’m trying to lift more than you ever have, there’s nothing else.
No thoughts about work, no thoughts about what shopping I forgot to do on the way home,it’s just me and the bar.
Oh, and yes, it’s very attractive to women 🙂 There’s no denying that.
There’s no denying that well sculptured biceps, or shapely shoulders make you more attractive to most women, but is it really necessary?
“I’m not attracted to you because you’re strong, I’m attracted to you because you choose to be strong. It’s because you choose how you want things to be rather than letting things be chosen for you…
..It wouldn’t matter if you weren’t strong because you would still be choosing how you want things to be rather than allowing things to be chosen for you.”
And this comes back to core message that we’ve been teaching here at the Attraction Institute: attracting beautiful women isn’t about what you do, it’s why you do it.
It’s the underlying mindset that’s important.
Sure, having a great body will help you attract women, but it’s not just the body that really gets them, it’s what that body says about you.
It says you’re willing to stand up and go after what you want.
It says you don’t let the world push you around. It says that you have the strength to be able to change your world into the world you want.
It’s says you’re a Man.
But you don’t need a great body to say this to women. It comes out in everything you do.
You can communicate the exact same message to women through how you act, how you walk, what you say, what you do, without ever lifting a weight.
It all comes down to how willing you are to step up to the plate and take control of your world. It all comes back to your inner game.
You can basically do anything that you want around women and still get amazing results.
All the rules are bullshit.
As long as you are choosing how you want your world to be in every moment.
The question is, how willing are you to step up and create your world in the way you want?