Still Getting Rejected Despite Saying and Doing ‘All the right things…’??

Rejection can be a funny thing… (Not ‘Ha ha’ funny. ‘Itchy’ funny)

You can think you’re on the right track, saying and doing all the right things, and yet, when you ask for her number when the time is ‘right’, you still end up with a ‘Sorry…’

So how do you fix this?

If you’re saying and doing all the right things and STILL getting rejected, what’s the solution?

Finding a useful solution starts with identifying the real problem.

Is the problem your body language? Maybe.

Is the problem that you’re approaching girls who are in relationships? Maybe.

Is the problem that you’re just not funny / cool / exciting enough? Maybe

But if you’re anything like every other guys who’s asked me about how to stop getting rejected, despite the fact that they’re saying and doing everything right, the problem is much simpler.

That problem is that you think that saying and doing all the right things is enough to get a girl.

Your attitude highlights the three real reasons why you’re getting rejected.

1. Lack of understanding

If you’re confused about why you’re getting rejected, despite the fact that you’re doing and saying all the right things, it means that you have no idea about what attracts women to Men and therefore, how to be attractive.

It means that you’re stuck on the surface level without a solid understanding of what’s going on underneath the layers and so have no idea where to start looking to change your situation with women.

The reason that women are or are not attracted to you only had the smallest amount to do with what you say and do and FAR more to do with who is saying and doing those actions.

You can read all about it here: How to become effortlessly attractive to women

2. Poor focus

If you’re confused about why you’re getting rejected, despite the fact that you’re doing and saying all the right things, it says that when you’re talking to a woman, instead of focussing on her – her likes, her dislikes, her fears, and her passions, who she is, where she’s going, and what she really wants out of life – you’re stuck in your head trying to say and do all the right things.

It says that you’re logically analysing the situation and following a series of steps rather than being present with the beautiful woman in front of you and trying to understand her.

How can you ever hope to make a woman feel safe, secure and appreciated if you’re just in your head running a series of steps rather than actually paying attention to her?

How can you ever hope to make her feel excited, alive, and passionate if you’re just going through a mental check list, ticking off boxes?

You can’t.

Being stuck in your head, running those a predetermined series of steps is the fastest and easiest way to make sure you miss all the subtle clues that a woman gives before walking away from you.

3. Inadequate solutions

If you’re confused about why you’re getting rejected, despite the fact that you’re doing and saying all the right things, it says that when you’re looking for a solution to your problem, you’re only going to focus on finding new things to say and do.

Because (as discussed earlier) what you’re saying and doing isn’t what’s really preventing you from attracting women, the solutions you find of new things to say and do aren’t going to solve the problem.

This means that you’re going to continue to walk this path of getting rejected, despite saying and doing all the right things, for a long, long time.

“Ok, so how do I fix this?”

These are the reasons you’re getting rejected, despite saying and doing all the right thing:

1. You have no idea what really attracts women to Men
2. You’re stuck in your head thinking about what you should be doing rather than paying attention to the ever changing and evolving woman in front of you
3. You’ve been focussing on a solution that will never give you the results you want

The good news is that you don’t need three different solutions to fix the three different problems.

You only need one because when you boil these elements down, they’re all to do with the same issue: “How do I attract women?”

You’re getting rejected because women aren’t attracted to you. If they were, they wouldn’t be saying “No thanks…” So, to fix the problem, you need to start with working out why women aren’t attracted to you.

And you can find the answer to why you’re not attracting women in Seduction Community Sucks.

Get your free copy here.

It’ll show you exactly why women aren’t attracted to you and what you need to change so you can attract the women you want.

Enjoy!

 

 

Leigh

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3 Responses

  1. Vodka

    You said it, Leigh.

    If however you have accomplished the attitude “Alfa” that said you would attract women and you don’t have women, then that is a half-truth or a lie.

    Find another way. I did it when I get “on top” of the attitude and I realized that this was not the whole story.

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      • Vodka

        Ok, I have spent many months following your AI philosophy. The best when about to attracting women.

        This is thanks to your philosophy gives the point of achieving attitude or what stupidly called “the game”. And does it very fast. When you get there, you realize a lot of things …

        Long ago I told you that I was doing very well with the attitude, finally was fun, strong and disinterested. Wow … but I say to you as women preferred to men for their physical and not me, but they were not half of what I am. Well, I did not care.

        Follow my path of growth, enter the gym and I’m not skinny! Now I’m muscular and to my surprise, I have a couple of interested women do nothing. Well, I do not care. This was a challenge for me and not for women. But something I thought showed long ago: the physical and money play a very important role when about getting women. All about the mentality getting.

        And it’s just a little sad to know. But hey, it’s okay.

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