What Women Want in Bed

SUMMARY: The reason you don’t know what women want in bed is because you’ve been listening to the wrong people. ‘Sex gurus’ are mostly nerdy losers trying to make cash or women who only know what they want in bed.

To really learn what women want in bed, you have to listen to not only a woman, but a woman who has sex with lots of other women. And the best way to learn that is through 2 Girls Teach Sex.

It’s 2 world famous porn stars who’ve been with more women than you could ever dream of, telling you you exactly what they, and the women they’ve made cum over and over agin, want in be.

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What Women Want in Bed

Lets not beat around the bush – women can be confusing in bed.

Some want it harder, some want it slow, some want their panties torn off in a fit of passion and fucked against the wall whilst others want you to make love to them all night.

They all have their own wants and needs and aren’t happy unless they’re fulfilled.

AND… Just to make it more difficult, their wants and needs change ALL THE TIME!

Maybe it’s rough and tumble one night and then slow and steady the next. How are you supposed to know what to do?

Worst of all, this makes you look like an idiot. It makes you look incompetent and incapable.

You try and you try and you try and all you get in return is “Sure, I came…” in a disappointed tone with no returned phone calls and no follow-up session.

All your hard work down the drain.


I know this because I was in the same position as you are.

I’d finally gotten to a point where I could take women home but in the end, it all amounted to nothing because she the left the next morning dissatisfied and disappointed.

So I did what any guy my age would do – looked for answers.

There was no way I was asking my mates for advice because they were just going to laugh at me so I turned to trusty Google.

Whilst there was plenty of information about finding her clit and fucking her hard and sexy dirty talk to get her juices flowing, it all suffered from the same two problems:

1. It was written by straight women who could only tell me what they wanted
2. It’s written by academics who were probably having less sex than I was

In short, it was all a waste of time. All I was learning was either one woman’s opinion on what she wanted or some scientific mumbo-jumbo that only made sense in a laboratory.

So then I dug deeper, and deeper, and deeper. I started doing more research into the best products on the market.

I’d read reviews, buy the products and then test them out (yes, it was a tough job but it was all for your benefit ;-) )

Some were TERRIBLE. Others were average. And after spending several thousands dollars and more hours than I ever thought possible testing different sex moves, I found what I consider to the three best programs to learn how to fuck a woman properly.

And here they are:


Top 3 Ways To Learn What Women Want in Bed

After going through just about every guide available on the market, here’s my breakdown of the three ways to learn how to make women cum. Starting with #1:


#1. 2 Girls Teach Sex [6 DVD’s] – 9.5/10 (The best way to learn what women want in bed)

Who’s going to know more about what women want in bed more than 2 female, bisexual porn stars?

Seriously. Think about it.

They’re paid to have sex time and time again and therefore know what works at what point in time and what simply doesn’t work.

But more than just knowing because they’re getting laid, they knows because part of their job is to make other girls cum as well!

And that’s what 2 Girls Teach Sex is all about. It’s 2 porn stars who get paid to have sex with both guys and girls, teaching you what gets them going in the bedroom and how they give other women screaming orgasms.

The 6 DVD’s cover everything you could want to know about sex:

DVD #1: Multiple Orgasm Method

This DVD walks you through the basics of multiple orgasms.

Two beautiful porn stars – Tori Black and Jazy Berlin – talk you through all the basics and fundamentals making sure you feel confident and sure by the time you’re done.

DVD #2: Advanced Sexual Position

This is where the fun really starts. Two new porn stars give you a step by step demonstration of their favourite sex positions and also let you know when you should and shouldn’t break these bad boys out.

Watch, learn, and internalise and you’ll already be in the top 5% of guys.

DVD #3: Squirting Orgasms Training

This is definitely the craziest DVD of them all… Have you ever made a woman squirt? Well, you’re going to be able to after this.

Shawna Lenee brings her friend on board and makes her squirt all over the place, whilst teaching you the exact steps you need to go through to replicate it with your women.

Whilst not all women are crazy into squirting, the ones that are will love you for this.

DVD #4: Forbidden Sex Secrets

Here’s where things start to get really interesting. Forbidden Sex Secrets is all about the psychology behind great sex.

Knowing the moves and being able to recite the theory is all good and well but it’s not the thing that’s going to push her over the edge.

The difference between average sex and great sex is, and has always been, the psychology.

This DVD will teach you the 4 steps of the P.A.V.E system and how to use it.

DVD #5: Shawna Lenee Interview

This 45 minute interview with Shawna gets into the down and dirty of what women really want in the bedroom.

Shawna talks about her background and experience and then lets loose on everything sex related from the perspective of a woman who’s paid to have sex.

If you want to hear all the intimate details, desires, and drives from the life of a nymphomaniac, this is a really insightful DVD.

DVD #6: Animal Orgasms (PDF)

This is basically a PDF of everything you’ve learnt throughout the program in PDF format. It means you an quickly skim through all your favourite bits without having to go through the DVD’s to find them again.

The videos are chock full of helpful demonstrations by the girls on positions, techniques, and strategies (yes, watching beautiful women talk about and demonstrate sex is always great) to help you give women crazy sexual experiences and have them coming back for more.

If you want to become a sexual stud, watch 2 Girls teach Sex now.


#2. Revolutionary Sex [PDF] – 7.5/10 – (Solid second option if you can’t watch video)

First things first – don’t take the fact that Revolutionary Sex is #2 on my list as any indication of the quality of the product.

This is one of the best PDF’s I’ve ever read on what women want in bed.

The only reason it falls #2 on my list is it’s all about getting you thinking the right way about sex and lacks the visual instructions you’ll find in 2 Girls Teach Sex.

In saying that, it still does a great job of breaking down the fundamentals of sex and setting you straight.

It starts out by running through a big list of the misconceptions and myths that hold guys back in the bedroom and gets your head on the right track.

This alone is HUGE. It gets you out of your head and back focussing on what’s really important in the bedroom – the girl.

It’s also chock full of strategies for dealing with all the problems that come up in the bedroom that most people just don’t want to talk about. If you’re struggling with issues like staying hard and cumming too quickly, Revolutionary Sex will help you through it.

Yes, it’s written by a guy but this is one of the few guys I’ve found who actually know what he’s talking about.

Overall, it’s a great product but it just lacks the all the benefits you get from the DVD’s in 2 Girls Teach Sex.

If this was read aloud by porn stars whilst they demonstrated how to practically apply these techniques, this would be #1. But at this point in time, it’s #2.

If you don’t mind paying a few extra dollars (for 5 DVD’s) then you’ll get much more value from 2 Girls Teach Sex.

If you’re cash strapped and don’t mind not having the visuals, then Revolutionary Sex is a great second option.

Get Revolutionary Sex here: Revolutionary Sex.


#3. Sex God Method – 5/10 – Not recommended for Beginners

Daniel Rose’s The Sex God Method was one of the last books I stumbled across and I was glad it was one of the last.

The book is written on the mindset of great sex. It will help you get yourself into the right zone to give women incredible sexual experiences, but that’s all it’ll give you.

There are no techniques, no methods, no structures, and most importantly, no implementation plan.

It’s about mindset and mindset alone.

And whilst the mindset part is incredibly important, without the rest of it, you’re going to be all at sea.

There’s no point in getting your head in the right place if you don’t know the right positions, when to use them, and how to make her cum.

That’s why I rated this 5/10.

It’s great if you’re at an advanced level in the bedroom but it’s almost useless if you’re just starting out (and lets be honest here, you’re not going to be reading this page if you’re at an advanced level).

If you’re at an advanced level, you can grab your copy here. But unless you’re advanced, I’d stick with 2 Girls Teach Sex.


In Conclusion

If you want to learn how to fuck a woman properly, you need to learn it from women who know how to make other women cum. And who better to teach you that than a world famous porn star??

Because of this, the best product on the market to learn what women want in bed is 2 Girls Teach Sex.

Their visual demonstrations of positions and techniques, combined with the interviews with beautiful women, and practical guides about mindset make it the most complete sex product on the market.

If you’re unsure about what women want in bed and want to have the confidence to give women incredible sexual experiences every time…

…get your copy of 2 Girls Teach Sex now.


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65 Responses

  1. lokariototal

    Does this mean that if we’re attracted to a girl, and the relationship is going well we should just try to kiss her? what if she freaks out and stops hanging out with us?

    • LoGun

      No, it doesn’t mean anything. It just means that this is what this woman likes in bed. Nothing more, nothing less.

      Should you just kiss a girl? Well, that depends on many different things. In that moment when you want to kiss her, is it the right time? Does she want you to kiss her? Does she want you to want to kiss her? Does she feel like it’s appropriate to kiss?

    • Kate

      My husband can talk all the dirty talk he wants. It makes me sick, it makes my skin crawl, turns me off, and his face is ugly as sin when he says it. My boss on the other hand can recite the Swahili alphabet backwards and I cum for days!

      • leigh

        Hahaha… There’s nothing quite like the Swahili alphabet to get those juices flowing!

        I guess this is one thing that’s automatically assumed by the woman who wrote this post: that the woman you’re having sex with is turned on by you.

        Good luck with your marriage. It sounds like you need it.

  2. Mikey

    I LOVE THIS!!!!

    Fell in to this trap way to many times. Do all the hard work getting a woman into bed and stuff it all up by trying to be sensitive and caring. I was set straight well and truly by one woman who said’for fucks sake, stop making love to me and just fuck me!’ Scared me straight.

    Women want to be excited, turned on and thrilled. They don’t want a woman with a penis (maybe occasionally).

    Women want men! REAL MEN.

    (usual ex-claimers inserted here)

  3. theuktoday

    I go the whole way, hair tugging, ass slapping, nipple strangling etc etc, when she makes it obvious she doesnt like it slow it down, problem is the same for men as women rarely say how they want it, go for rough guys, every time ~~

  4. anonymous

    Ok, the woman that wrote this post is a freaking genius! It’s like she crawled inside my head and materialized all my thoughts about sex. I agree with absolutely everything written here, word by word.
    What’s up with men lately?, I don’t get it, I can’t seem to forget this one guy that more than once told me “fuck me”, say what! What a turn off, ugh. Men were supposed to be good at one thing and that was giving us a good fuck, and now they want us to do all the work? I just don’t get it.

    • Leigh (LoGun)

      I’ll be honest with you ‘Anonymous’. It’s not easy for guys.

      We get pounded by the equal opportunity, women’s movement thing preaching that we need to treat women THE SAME as we treat Men (not equally, but THE SAME).

      Don’t get me wrong, I think the advancement of women’s rights is a beautiful thing but it makes it hard to really let loose in the bedroom. When you’ve been told to ‘treat her nicely so you don’t end up with a law suit on your hands’, it’s hard to turn around, take control, and fuck a woman like she deserves.

      It took me a long time to break out of the programming handed to me by my feminist mother…

      For your sake, I hope more Men are able to as well.

      • Zach

        We’ve been told we need to fuck women THE SAME as we fuck Men.

        Passive aggressively.

    • Bongstar420

      This is what I always assumed and women always try to lie about it. I was always like, “why do I have to act like I am interested in something else.” If you walk up to a woman and tell her that you want to fuck her till shes yelling blasphemous phrases, what do you think will happen?

    • stinger

      Society can’t neuter men in every phase of life and have you still expect us to be a RAGING BULL in bed. There is a price to equality, you (women) should’ve expected that.

      • Luke

        Great reply. Modern women do insist on neutering men, and of course, it’s our fault to look at it like that. But, like the article described, it’s like they’re asking us to chop our arms off. Could they do that for the good of men? I highly doubt it. We need control in order to be “real” or dominating men in bed. It’s like a burning flame being spit on. Which way is the flame going to go? Is the flame going to burn out with all of that saliva or is it going to grow stronger? I’m pretty sure it will go out and eventually, you’re left with a mangina who’s worse than a homosexual. He doesn’t even want be penetrated let alone penetrate someone else.

  5. Claudio

    Before I got married, the way you described this was exactly the way I treated all the women I dated. I treated every single one of them like a whore in bed and they loved every second of it. So much so that they admited that they were always thinking about sex when I was around. My objective was to make them cum every time out. I myself was not satisfied unless they came. Of course I didnt learn this until my early-mid 20s and looking back before that I lost out on so many opportunities because of my lack of experience. It takes time to develope these skills. This article is dead on. Good job Leigh.

  6. MAC

    All dicks aren’t the same size,(girth,lenghth, etc–ALL women CAN’T take the dick equally- with that being said- you just have to work it differently;working it like a vibrator,working the entrance,just fucking her mind up no matter if your making love or not- knowing how to work the dick so she CUMS on It!!!!!!If you can’t do it with Ur stick then find another way. Just Fuck her mind.B da Greatest!!!

    • mark

      Exactly. I’ve only put about 4 inches in real fuckin slow and a calm ass tempo and stared her dead in the eyes the whole time. She came so hard. I’ve also jackrabbit’d a bitch with her whole body locked in an immovable position and she never came. Admitted I was disappointed, but if we have sex for over 30 minutes not including foreplay and you don’t come lol I will not lose sleep. I’ll just chalk you up as an asexual mess and disappear. All in all I loved this woman’s writing style. It came off intimidating, but after a while I found it refreshing. Don’t ever call a man boy unless you want to get smacked though.

  7. Custer

    The author is right. The above is something every man in a successful marriage understands. What she leaves out is why. Why women like dominance, aggression, and stamina is a topic every feminist is sensitive about. Feminist = Liberal. Liberal = counter-culture. Counter-culture = the destruction of any republic.

    These are attributes by which a female selects a protector and provider. The “taking charge” is a quality she wants passed onto her offspring. It’s all about reproduction – don’t think it isn’t.

    Now that the cart is behind the horse once again. She wants her babies to be like you, but that will only happen if you stay to help shape them. Men will only stay if you are serious about WHO you let penitrate you. Oh, he may take her for a joy ride but that just adds on milleage.

    • Leigh (LoGun)

      The evolutionary psychology ‘passing on your traits to my offspring’ is one way of looking at it.

      I prefer to look at it from a different one. It may not have the extensive scientific theories behind it but it makes much more sense to me.

      The reason that some (a lot) of women prefer this kind of Man is that this kind of Man gives them the expereince they desire, in this very moment. I don’t believe it ahs anything to do with the past or the future, rather, the experience they desire now.

      If you can give a woman the expereince they want, in this present moment, then she will desire it more.

      The reason I think it’s important to focus on this moment is that women don’t always desire this kind of sex. Sometimes, they desire slow loving sex, sometimes they desire hard and fast f*&king, sometimes, it’s funny, playful sex. What they desire changes and so in order to give women the sex they want, you have to focus on what they desire in the present moment.

      Just my 2c anyway. Not saying it’s right, it’s just the way I see it.

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts,


  8. Mary

    Custer, you have a very deep understanding of human sexuality. It took me a long time to understand consummate love. That is what you described whether you know it or not.

    That said, I agree with Leigh in this article.

    Perhaps men have lost sight of the importance of their vocation as fathers, and leaders. If they don’t view their function as important they won’t invest as much into it. They will be less likely to take risks, because the payoff is just an orgasm, not a whole family.

  9. Brian

    5. It’s OK for you to make noise. Otherwise, we feel like we are fucking a ninja.


    Leigh please help, Ive ran out of ninja smoke bombs.

  10. ross

    jesus i never laughed so much in my life and i laugh a lOT. u r hilarious…

  11. Bill

    I too found this not just informative, but extremely funny. I was one of the sensitive, slow to act guys in my youth because I thought that was right and showed respect. Then I would look around and see the biggest jerks getting the hot women…I couldn’t figure it out. At least, not until later in life. Now I know and Leigh, you are absolutely right. I’d love to hear your views on the steps before getting to the physical aspect. I have my own, much of what I learned from women, but it would be great to get your perspective.

    • Leigh (LoGun)

      Wicked mate. I only wish I wrote it. Though I don’t think it would have the same impact if it came from the mouth of a guy.

      I’m in the process of rewriting Seduction Community Sucks and I’m going to fill it full of a whole bunch of fun stuff so keep your eye out for that.

  12. Irv

    Nice job and thanks for re-setting the way forward. I find this information timely and informative. Only a couple of things, I’m not sure that my partners want to be called ‘..bitch’ or ‘….whore’. At least that has been my experience. But right up to that point as mentioned, spot on. On a related note, wassup with that sex partner that wants to bite the hell out of my dick?!? I had to let her know, but she couldn’t help herself. I think she wanted me to punch her or throw her into the wall which is a line I will not cross, I had to roll (leave). I can be a freak but we all have to be mindful of the boundaries.

    • Leigh (LoGun)

      In my experience, women don’t want to have you lead them around the local shopping mall calling them ‘Bitch’ and ‘Whore’. Its DEFINITELY got to be timed right with the right kind of sex but when it is, it’s a whole lot of fun. My personal favorite is ‘Dirty Little Slut’ but each to their own.

  13. Seriously?

    Women have this false sense of entitlement and how they are so dependant on men engaging them(starting the conversation that begins the relationship, starting sex, etc…) because god forbid they grow some balls and put there ego on the line. No the guy has to do it because you can always shoot him down and he rebounds. But god forbid you make the first move because you just cant handle the loss.

    Dont get me wrong I dont mind it, I love taking charge etc… I get a feeling of accomplishment but thats just me. Back to the point this post is makes me completely sick. Its basically women chastising men for not making the first move, completely oblivious to the fact that it takes 2 to tango. I mean seriously… The writer of this post and everyone who agrees with this should really reevaluate there mentality.

    Allowing a guy a chance to take the lead is one thing, but ranting about that he wont start the transition into sex is just kinda pathetic.

    It would be like me complaining about how you left for 3 days and complaining that you didnt pre cook anyfood for me to eat, and you saying “why didnt you just cook something?”, and me saying “thats besides the point”. Masochistic i know but its the only analogy i can think of. Not that my girl has to cook for me, I am a great cook.

    • Leigh (LoGun)

      I think you missed the point here my friend. The post isn’t chastising you for what you are and are not doing, the post is simply one woman saying ‘This is what I, and most women I know, want.’

      If you don’t want to be part of this, go and date a dude. If you don’t want to take initiative, then go and have sex with your business partner.

      Me personally, I like feminine women. This is what feminine women like. Because this is what feminine women are like, I choose to take the lead.

      This works for me because I also happen to take the lead. I don’t want someone else to tell me what to do. I want to do what I want to do. That means I work perfectly with feminine women.

      If you’re not willing to take the lead then find a Masculine woman you can have boring, platonic, logical, negotiated sex with. I’ll be with the beautiful, feminine, girly women.

      • heisenburg

        Its good to be single, buddy. Fuck all the nagging, fuck buying her expensive gifts, and being made to feel like I’m always in the wrong. Fuck bitches. Like jim Jeffries, I sometimes wish I was gay and I recommend jim jeffries to anyone who liked this dog shit article. Fucking feminists….

  14. Tom

    I have to agree with the author. In my experiences the majority of the women I’ve been with liked it on the rough side. One even demanded I had my hand firmly around her neck as I pounded her, I was a little hesitant at first because I didn’t squeeze too hard and hurt her but after time you know what the limits are and it makes fucking so much better. I have to say though it does make it alot easier for us guys if we get some kind of hint of how she likes it, which after time you do become better at picking up on it. I love the article, it’s nice to actually hear a woman admit to what most don’t like to. I don’t find it un-ladylike I find it sexy and honest.

  15. Nicole

    What women want in bed is definitely not all the same as
    this article suggests. Rough stuff, especially if a woman didn’t know the guy well would be scarey and/or weird. Seriously, why would anyone dig hair pulling, spanking, some creep coming on her face, or anything that hurt? I asked a more experienced friend what she thought and she agreed and told me that this stuff is done a lot in porn and it’s become a common thing guys seek and plenty of women pretend to dig. I think that a Real Man who takes charge, is strong, energetic and expressive but doesn’t hurt, scare, or harm, and definitely knows the importance of the clitoris is what is hot, hot, hot!

    • goodnhard

      I’ve found that in the heat of it after they’ve got off once that they all want to be stuffed and hammered as long as possible, till their legs quiver for a half hour after I’ve blown my load.

    • Kris

      I don’t think so. most woman I fucked was in to that stuff. It is a role play. being rough in bed like a fucking animal as we are, is something every single woman i ever was with, liked. But you can’t just be rough, if your not also kind. My girlfriend trust me so much because see knows that i am very warm heartet and kind. So in bed we can do whatever. I think you might be lying to your self.

  16. MarkJonez

    I have only made love/had sex with 1 person in my life and that’s my beautiful wife (lol, that rhymed). When both in a couple are virgins before getting married they both obviously have zero experience. But we started to experiment with and communicate how we like sex. What I have found out is that we both like to mix it around. Once its caring soft slow sex which can also be passionate at the same time, and other times its more rougher type of sex.

    The rougher sex is basically showing how much you physically sexually want and crave your woman. There are times when you physically feel you need this (you must communicate this and take charge). This type of sex indicates what you want as a man!

    The softer sex is more showing how much you love and care for her and want to protect her and give her that warm feeling of total devotion to her. This type of sex indicates how much you love your woman with a selfless affection and dedication. Even us men have this inner need to show this to our women, the calling is not just from women and their needs. Real men literally have a yearning to show that they want to protect and give warmth to her.

    Because in the end this is what a woman (at least mine) “needs” (not only wants):
    1. To be loved, nurtured, cared for, protected and respected.
    2. To be absolutely wanted physically by you

    It is a balance in any healthy relationship!

    The conclusion is: A woman needs you to take charge but also needs you to pick up on her signals or at least communicate with her. Notice how I use the word “need”, its not just “want”. And what she needs, is in the end actually what you need ;-), to love and worship her to the bones and to fuck her brains out at the same time lol.

  17. Love

    Now women need to feel special and open during sex if a women is not open during sex it wont work out.

  18. jonny

    So… what if you are a guy and you don’t like making stupid noises, calling girls whores or wearing condoms? It’s not all about the woman. You have to meet in a middle ground. If I get a girl that wants me to do dirty talk, I don’t come back. Lame, cheezy, etc…

    • Leigh (LoGun)

      Then you’re probably going to be stuck having ordinary sex for the rest of your life.

      One thing that you might not have realised yet is that if you can give women the kind of sexual experiences that they crave on a deep and primal level, then will continue to come back to you, over and over again.

      If you continue to be stuck in your head complaining that people should meet in the middle and that the world is not fair, then you’re going to miss out on some incredible opportunities and experiences.

  19. Vince

    Holy shit !! This is exactly what I needed to hear/read !! I just wish I would have read this like 20 years ago. I am, or should I say was, one of those wussies. Don’t know why. Maybe the liberal, progressive movement. Maybe having only sisters as siblings. I don’t know why, but I’ve always knew something was amiss. My new wife of 1 1/2 years has been hinting around at this more aggressive, take charge thing. She won’t come clean and just say what she wants, but now I know…this is it !! I am gonna work this in. Thank you so much for just saying it like it is !

  20. alberto varela

    Wow what guys don’t know this. I always talk dirty to women I always tell them to tell me they want more Dick while I’m inside them . I almost always pull their hair, smack their ass sometimes choke them. Oh I remember this one girl choked me back when I was on top that was exciting . I pound a girl til she’s pulling away from me.

    Now let me mention what I need and I have only gotten from 4 girls or maybe 5 I need a women to let me cum in her mouth that feels the best. The facials were good when I was a teenager .you wanna keep a guy let him cum in your mouth . Obviously this would be most likely your boyfriend .

    Every women wants to be dominated I push the women against the wall and attack her when she gives me that sign and I last very long I really just need that mouth to let me cum inside it and if a women swallows now we’re talking .

  21. Jimmy

    The problems is YOU fuking women need to make up your mind!! All men are turning more feminine by the day. Plucking their eyebrows , shaving off all their body hairs , come on, all because the modern man needs to look pretty in like a bloody woman. Then women seem to want ‘ a real man ‘ , lol, make up your mind women. You don’t like the thought of a man how they used to be, hairy , masculine and tough, instead you want smooth, pretty boys with floppy hair in tight jeans?? And you wonder why thru can’t give you whores a good fucking, lmfao, today’s society is a joke , women just stop fucking moaning , the less men concentrate on looking like poofs, that’s where it starts

    • Leigh (LoGun)

      You seem to blame the fact that a lot of guys and becoming increasingly feminine on social standards but would those standards matter if guys didn’t change who they are and what they wanted depending on what society said they should do?

      Would this be an issue if they just lived their life the way they thought was right, rather than what people told them was right?

  22. alberto varela

    Wow I agree some men do look to feminine with the tight jeans and the shaved eyebrows . But truthfully and thankfully not I some men are too hairy, put yourself in women’s shoes would you want to have sex with a hairy person . Taking care of oneself , absolutely nothing wrong with that .

    What the real problem is I encounter men who don’t stand up for themselves. A man has to be able to put a woman in her place from time to time and vice versa. Nothing sexy well at least for most women in a needy, wuss of a man. A woman wants to be taken by a man who commands respect from others men and women . That’s what needs to be fixed more than other things .

  23. Jimmy

    It’s not about men being hairy, I’m just saying that men seem to be confused these days about how they should look, dress, act, just to fit into this modern gay looking trend , ( no offence to gays). When I shag my bird, I let all hell break lose, I pound that pussy good and hard just the way most women like it ( not all) but that’s just me. That’s what I’m saying, these days your either a pretty boy poof looking guy, or your the usual old skool looking bloke. All the natural male traits seems to be disappearing or men are being more and more brainwashed, I have nothing against men looking good, nice hair cut , well groomed, gym goer, all that is great, just when men start to look and dress more snd more like women , just to fit in, it’s literally “gay” lol. Oh yh my point is ummmmmm

  24. David

    You can fuck a woman with love or you can “make love to her” with disdain. The opposite is also true, so It’s not the words we are talking about. I often think how fortunate my male ancestors were. They didn’t sit around wondering how to get a woman into bed, by listening to her problems or buying her drinks. They took their women and they fucked the hell out of them. I am not talking about rape or abuse for all you hardcore feminists. I am talking about not worrying so much about what a woman wants in bed. What leads to infrequent and boring sex is trying to be too much of a nice guy in bed, trying too please a woman and trying to get her approval or be always on a lookout to see when the best time is to approach her. Be like the Bull Moose. Fuck your woman well. You’ll both be happy.

  25. John

    I agree with the post, girls like being fucked hard, and fast for as long as possible. Dirty talk, spanking, spitting (to a certain extent) dont be fooled by her job, her status or looks there all whores in the bedroom & deserve no respect (in the bedroom) If you wanna make her cum it’s gotta be done fuck the shit outta that birch!!! You can cuddle after. .. I’ve only been with one girl who wasn’t a freak in the bed but she was insecure and was terrible in the sack. But men nowadays are dressing like weirdo women, colourful shirts, tight jeans, it’s just so gay. Normal guys are like a last of a dying breed a forgotten tribe WTF is going on?! And women dressing like lesbians shaving half there head off these are confusing times. Media & Internet pressuring every man to look like Beckham and have a 13 inch dick. But what about what we want!!! These girls need to start sucking more dick! If they swallow I swear to GOD I’ll speak Arabic :)

  26. O

    I literally JUST read another write-up by a woman that said the EXACT opposite of what this article is telling men to do.

    The moral of the story is always this: Every. Woman. Is. Different.
    Some like it rough, some hate it rough. Some just wanna get fucked. Some want to take it all slow. Some love oral. Some hate oral.

    Every time you’re with a woman, just ask her what she wants. What’s so hard about that?

    • David

      The reason why you don’t ask a woman what she wants is because most woman don’t know what they want. It’s our job as men to lead and take a woman places she’s never been before.

    • goodnhard

      Big mistake, girls want fucked by a man, not some fem/male who asks what she likes. Man, to ask what they want sounds so limp dick that she’ll say nothing from you I already got a pussy. You give her what you want to give her and let her be thankful that you’re willing to slam the meat to her. You get what you want, then have her stfu and fix a sandwich.

  27. inya

    i am 25 and i never had sex. i relly wanna fuck. i am exhausted by donig
    masturbation all day long. I am attracted to women older then me. i wish i
    had success very soon.

  28. David

    Stop staying home and masterbating. Magic happens around people.

  29. Hmm

    Great article but there are few things I’ve considered after reading it. None of the article ever mentioned trust. Of course, you could ask her if this is okay or that is okay, nothing harmful but women also need to feel trust and allow a man to communicate appropriately. I’m sure y’all know this already but come on, calling a minority group of women who don’t like charge is uncalled for. Like somebody said every women is different. Sex is different to each one.

    Plus you’ve mentioned that most women have told you how they like good fuck, then I ask you – how did you do your research? How do you know which woman to ask? How many women have you spoken with?

    What’s wrong with men taking things slow? So do women too! For many reasons! All I see the whole point of this article was telling its ok for men to charge. What if a date rapist interpret this article wrong and thinks it ok for man to take charge when a woman don’t want it?

    Oh by the way I’m lesbian and I know how to treat my wife the best sex doesn’t mean we are in minority group. Every woman is equal and different, don’t fucking label us.

  30. Andrea

    One of the best, most hilarious articles I’ve ever read on sex! I agree with everything you said! You’re brilliant! I give you kudos for your honesty! I will be sharing this article tonight with my hunny!! Thank you for writing this!

  31. cb

    Raised by a single mother, i feel this this has affected my nature and attitude to women. I’d love to be the super aggressive dominant male type in all aspects of working/sex life but that;s not me and i’m a little timid, long and slow although lots of stamina. So articles like this make me feel somewhat inadequate. However, it’s 2014 and women are more than equal, men have been hammered by the fembots and to be honest there are so many mixed messages that make women appear as crazy deranged personality disorder depressed lunatics that don;t know what they want. Many men are just confused as to why girls go with bad guys and then whinge about how the ‘bad guy’ is not a conversationalist and then they meet another bad guy whch makes them depressed so they go opposite and meet another guy who is ‘nice’ so that they can have a house and a baby. They struggle to raise a child, lose the will to work and become depressed for the rest of their lives. rock on bitches

  32. Mal

    Cliche saying it may be, but I’m a gentleman in the streets and a fucking animal between the sheets. My girlfriend loves it, she loves it when I get that look of animal lust in my eyes and pound her pussy hard. We can totally loose ourselves in the bedroom (the car, the garden, kitchen table, disabled toilet, or wherever we may be) and really show and tell each other how fucking horny we are for each other. Then as a hot, sweaty totally drained mess, I get up and make her breakfast ;)

    • Joey

      Preach it. I’ve heard men want Martha Stewart in the kitchen, Mary Poppins in the nursery and Madonna in the bedroom…Women want Jamie Oliver in the kitchen, Rupert Murdoch in the boardroom and Wolverine in the bedroom.

  33. Dave

    I have been married twice, and basically let down twice. My first marriage I will admit I was an immature alcoholic. Second time I would do as much as I possibly could, spend as much time to please her as possible, and then felt as though she was faking her climaxes. My work kept me away from home for several weeks at a a time. I was ABSOLUTELY faithful, but felt the only reason she would fuck me was to keep me focused on returning to work. I am now with a great lady, I am working at changing careers, but at the age of 59 my equipment seems to fail me more than not.

  34. Confused male

    some woman like the one i have are to shy in bed. The thought of me talking dirty embarrasses her. When we were first together she didn’t act as timed(probablly trying to impress me or wtv). When I do try to pull her hair and “pound it” it hurts her. I have 2 kids with her and we’ve been together for 7 years now. Were both in our late 20’s so you would think that we would be in our sexual prime. But thats not the case I guess. She absolutely dispises everything kinky. The only time I get any emotion out of her is when she cums. Which i try to make sure happens every time. Its getting to the point where I am getting extremely bored. I don’t wanna cheat but I’ve exulted all other avenues. Our sex life isn’t spontanious at all (partly b/c of kids). Sex is pritty much limeted to one room and like 3 positions. I’ve talked to her plenty of times about this and it’s gotten me nowhere. I truely love her and don’t wanna hurt her, shes a great friend……..terrible lover.


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