9 Ways to Set Yourself Apart From Every Other Guy

To be remembered, to be attractive, to be desirable…

…you need to set yourself apart from every other guy.

If you just blend into the crowd, if you’re just the same as every other guy, if you’re the sum of an average, why would a woman with options pick you over the next guy?

By being the same, you give her no reason to.

But how?

Well, there are ways, and there are ways.

Here’s 9 ways to set yourself apart from every other guy so that beautiful women will be the ones asking for your number.

1. Wear stupid hats and paint your nails
2. Memorise relevant questions that you don’t actually care about hearing the answers to but think it’ll be a clever way to get women to talk to you
3. Watch how someone who’s confidently different from other guys behaves and try and act in the same way

Or, you could…

4. Have the balls to be honest and real
5. Say what you’re actually thinking rather than what you think you’re supposed to say
6. Don’t try and come up with bullshit excuses to talk to her
7. Be nervous but own your nervousness rather than pretending it doesn’t exist
8. Live an internally rewarding life rather than living a life that leaves you dependent on nice smiles and polite responses to feel good about yourself
9. Follow your passion rather than what everyone else tells you that you should be doing

There are ways and there are ways.

Each one can — given the right situation, the right environment, the right execution, and the right women — be an effective strategy for getting a woman’s attention, but only certain ones are going to keep it.

Which one are you going to choose?




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16 Responses

  1. Mr. M

    My will is to go there and just kiss you every time i read a new article here. Love you Logun. Or no.

  2. Vince

    Ok, let’s say I have few favorites among them but how to find willpower and energy to do this?
    Follow your passion is easy to say, but I never found on this site how to find willpower to create this kind of life.

    • Leigh (LoGun)

      This is an interesting question mate and can’t be answered that simply without knowing more information.

      Specifically: what’s preventing you from taking action?

      Fear of negative outcome, repeated failure in the past, fear of success, habit, energy levels? To fix a problem, you first have to know what’s causing it. No willpower is just the lack of ability to push through a barrier. You have to identify that barrier to create long lasting change.

  3. Kelden

    Yes yes YES. Damn! It’s really inspiring that there are guys like you out there who give the REAL DEAL.

    The REAL DEAL, to make REAL connections with REAL WOMEN. REAL, AMAZING WOMEN.

    Yeah!!! I hope you live till like 120 years old, enough time to spread your message to the whole world. Heck, I hope you really DO spread your message to the whole world.

    Every time an articles comes up on Attraction Institute, I’m like “Dang I gotta read it.” It’s soooo refreshing, better than reading some article on how to get laid and feed your ego by “banging hot chicks”.

    Awesome Leigh 😉

    • Leigh (LoGun)

      Glad it clicked with you so much mate. I’ve been trying to spread the message that there’s an easier and more powerful way to attract the women you want for a long time but it’s slow going. Hopefully, we can reach more of the guys who’re looking for a simple and obvious solution soon.

      • Kelden

        Well, in my opinion, I think the hardest part is convincing them and getting rid of the past PUA nonsense they’ve read.

        This could be the problem: When you come up and just be direct with them, they feel their identity as a PUA is threatened and they put up all these defences and argh now you have to deal with all these crap that’s actually just them feeling threatened by your directness.

        You could try just showing it to them, maybe? Like, go out to bars and PUA-populated areas, and just do your usual thing. They’ll wonder “Oh my god, how is that guy so free around women?” then they’ll come talk to you, then you tell them about Attraction Institute, then they’ll tell their PUA friends, and their PUA friends will tell THEIR friends, and from there onwards it’s just a ripple effect.

        Just throwing some suggestions out there 🙂

      • Leigh (LoGun)

        That’s not a bad idea mate and something we’ve done in the past. When I was going out heaps, I used to get lots of comments from PUA minded guys about how I was doing everything that you’re not supposed to do but getting the girls they wanted and they wanted to know more.

        I don’t go out as much any more (in fact, I couldn’t tell you the last time I went out with the intention of flirting with women) so I don’t know if this is going to work but it’s still a good idea.

      • Breathe

        Unfortunately, odds are that they would just try to emulate Leigh instead of taking the message to heart.

      • Leigh (LoGun)

        Possibly. But also possibly not. It all depends on how well I can convey the messages that I’m trying to communicate. You never know until you try.

        And to be honest, I would much rather a bunch of dudes running around faking honesty, integrity, and compassion than trying to use people.

        Obviously, it’s not ideal but it’s a lesser of two evils.

  4. Allen

    I never get signs from any woman of any type whatsoever – they never acknowledge my existence at all. Every other guy (and I mean every other guy) is incomparably more attractive than me no matter what I look like, do or say. I am the most unattractive man possible, and nothing I could ever do could change this. This is not to do with confidence, it’s simple fact – as such I never talk to women – why bother?

    The only thing I *know* is that there is no way I’ll ever get any woman to even talk to me. Other guys get girlfriends, dates, etc., because they are attractive to somebody out there. I am of zero interest to any woman and this is a fact that can’t be changed. It’s hard to accept that nobody will ever want me, but no matter what I do, I’ll never be able to compete successfully for a woman’s interest against any other guy because every other guy is more attractive than me.


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